This is for you if you are asking yourself all the time the question how do I get a girl to like me.
If you want to kill a woman’s sexual excitement for you…practice meta-communication.
What is meta-communication?
It is a “discussion about the communication itself”
Let me show you an example:
Version 1:
“We should talk more about how arranging trips and vacations will bring us closer together.”
Version 2:
“Hey Honey, we’re going for a vacation on the shore of Panama next week. We’ll have a blast at the great hotel there.”
In the first version you’re being a clueless AFC ( average frustrated chump ) a total sexual turn-off.
In the second version you are being… a real MAN.
Why is that?
Because at a primitive level there’s a constant “tug-of-war” for power between people and…
The person who practices meta-communication in a relationship is basically telling the other person that he/she is less important.
In version 1 you are showing her that you are interested in “working for the relationship”…
Now this sends a message to the woman that you are a man of lower value who cannot get other women at will!
So you have to work to “improve” the relationship. In version 2 you’re doing nothing to “save” the relationship and you are simply communicating with her.
You’re saying: “Welcome to my world”
In a word: the person who meta-communicates is showing to the other that he/she is the one of lesser value.
How could a woman be attracted to you if you constantly demonstrate lesser value?
There is no way she’ll get hot for you.
There are hundreds of things you can do to have a woman sexually excited for you and one of them is to AVOID meta-communication.
Women use it as a test when they want to determine how self-confident you are, constant attempts to force you into meta-communication.
Then they lose attraction for you if you fail this test.
Such tests may be:
– “I would like to know what are we”
– “There is something in our relationship we need to talk about”
– “At this point we need a talk about us”
If at this point you make the mistake of getting into meta-communication you are showing her that you are far too much worried about “saving” the relationship.
Would a Prince be worried about saving a relationship?
Hell no! A Prince would communicate with her.
He would not try to “save” anything..
Be the Prince. Avoid meta-communication: because it only increases her horniness for you.
To discover more such genuine proven information which helps you get the girl please refer to the Manual of Seduction by Franco
Franco, helping men since 2004
Hi Franco,
thanks for the great post!
What would be appropriate answers to the tests you mentioned (“I would like to know what are we”, “There is something in our relationship we need to talk about”, “At this point we need a talk about us”).
steel
Hello Steel
Thanks for the appreciation.
Depends on what you want.. if you really want to keep her on her toes you might go with..
Steel: “Shh.. let´s keep the future exciting”
Have fun
HI
I am from Argentina and would be good to translate your site into Spanish.
great post!
Hello Nico,
Thank you and welcome to Franco Seduction.
Please tell us something about the presente state of the relationships between men and women in Argentina.
We would be very interested in hearing about it!
About translations: please mail me about it, will be happy to comment.
Cheers, Franco