Let me guys the pleasure of sharing with you a technique you can use to give a girlfriend or a wife – who is trying to make you jealous by putting you to compete with other guys – the surprise of a lifetime.
This is a very powerful technique to counter act any kind of game a woman may try to play on you while you plan to seduce her and in long-term relationships with her.
I have highly field tested this technique and it works every single time like a very well oiled machine. Of course you need to know the basics of the game as described in the Manual of Seduction for being able to apply this well.
When women talk to us they use rich descriptions. This I also call female hypnotic talk and it´s a way the female of our species uses to gain power over the male.
Women describe richly colors, situations, feelings, shape and all. On the contrary men tend to exchange data and prefer to say it shortly to increase effectiveness in action.
For example about the gym:
A man to a male friend: “I was at the gym. It was a hell of a a great session!”
A woman to a girlfriend: “I felt so good this evening. Suddenly I realized that I need to do something for my body. I felt inside myself the need to move, enjoy, and hike. I took by blue bag, the one I like so much. Outside the sun was shining and I felt hot inside. Before I even noticed it I was already moving with a wonderful joyful feeling inside me towards the gym. There I took all my clothes off in the changing room. I could feel how the guys were staring at me while entering the aerobic room. Such nice guys!”
Something guys do not know is that by using rich descriptions a woman – consciously or unconsciously, it doesn’t matter! – aims to control the mind of her male! We have examples of the same process in many animal species and the mean used by the female of our species is: rich and descriptive hypnotic talk.
The songs of the Sirens.
It is a general notion in NLP that by descriptions/stories you can capture another person’s mind into a hypnotic state. You can suck the person into your world.
By describing a pink elephant to someone you have the person “actually see” a pink elephant.
A woman’s rich description has a great hypnotic effect on the mind of the one listening. It captures the imagination of the man into the scene described.
Experienced seducers use the same rich descriptions to capture the imagination of the woman and by doing so they bring her where they want her to go: into bed with them.
Now, when a woman will want you to do something for her she will rarely tell you: “I want the thing X”.
In most of the cases she will describe to you what she wants in a rich way in order to capture your imagination into the scene described by her”.
If you go with your wife to the market and you are a provider to her you will notice for example that by richly describing the items she likes she will slowly have you into hypnotic state, which will probably have you to spend more money on the item than what you wanted.
Stronger men instinctively react defensive in those situation and their irritation may cause a fight.
Now let´s get to how a woman plays the jealousy game on a man.
If you observe carefully the chat between a jealous husband or boyfriend and his woman you will notice that a moment before he has the jealousy attack she will run on him rich descriptions where she inserts open ended statements,
She will richly describing to him open ended situations like: “I was at the gym. Suddenly a guy, Mark smiled to me. He seemed to be such a fun guy, tall, with deep and intelligent eyes. He said he could teach me some new aerobic exercises…”
What happens to average frustrated chumps at this point is that they are hypnotically “captured” into the woman´s rich description – just like she meant it to be – their brain begins to “see” the scene described by her and they become to be reactive to it and begin to compete with the imagined other guy on the mental level.
Then they react by showing jealousy or becoming controlling and begin to let her grab them firmly by the balls.
Notice: a woman will not always use a rich description to influence you. This way of talking is the way women usually talk and if you listen to discussion between women you will notice that this is the way the communicate to each other.
A woman may or may not – consciously or unconsciously – try to use this both in short-term encounters with you or in long-term relationships to capture your mind.
You need to calibrate and be able to discern when she is simply being a woman and when she has a purpose behind her rich descriptions.
And here is how you surprise her big time when she runs the jealousy game on you:
These are the steps:
– First of all awareness. With women you cannot afford a lack of awareness. If you are not aware you will find yourself (especially in a relationship) sucked into her frame before you even notice it.
– So coach yourself to be aware and always pay attention to your surroundings. You need to be able to listen and observe her non verbal reactions and her speech.
– Keep in mind that rich descriptive talk does not come natural to men! Men prefer short communication and enjoy exchanging data. If this kind of talk would come natural out of you I would think you are probably a quite feminine man. For this reason you can put this advice in practice only by practicing full awareness.
– When she is rich describing something ask from yourself: which is her purpose, is there a purpose in it. Women may describe richly all what´s around without a purpose in mind of they have a clear purpose behind their speech. If the answer is yes get to the technique.
– The delay: this is key, key, key! You should be able to listen calmly to her rich description when she is trying to make you jealous without reacting in any way and control yourself for all the time she does that and after she has finished it. Your turn will come after and I guarantee you will enjoy it.
– Just listen to her jealousy plot line and act like you would not understand what she is behind. This already will make you score points as what she is expecting is you reacting to it. If you react in any way at this stage you will come out as reactive to her game and that´s game on for her!
– Then the delay: simply drop the conversation and let some time go. For example a few hours if you are in a seduction situation or maybe even a day or two if you are in a relationship.
– After the delay while in the middle of another totally unrelated conversation with her insert a rich description of yours. At best it goes well when you link it “innocently” to something she is talking about.
– For example she is talking about the importance of taking care of own health and then suddenly you go like this: ”Yes! Taking care of our own body is extremely important. The wonderful feeling you get when you are moving and enjoying yourself. Yesterday at work place Jane told me that she began to practice squash. She seemed to be in a perfect shape. Even before she began to practice sport she was really slim and good looking but now she is gorgeous. She told me that now guys on the streets stare at her in the most disturbing way. She wanted me to go with her to play squash but that evening I was very busy. Her idea sounded quite nice. Yes taking care of body is very important. By the way: how was your last time at the gym??”
Watch at this point her non verbal reactions carefully and enjoy: you have a girl who is jealous of you now. You can repeat the sequence at need. You will see her collapsing and beginning to chase you.
I have field tested this a lot both in encounters where the woman was trying to raise her own value artificially by trying to have me compete with other guys on the mental level and in relationships where she was trying to have me jealous in order to control me or betaise me.
Each single time it works perfectly: the same chick who tells you about that wonderful guy, Mark is soon asking from you questions like: ”Listen, are you going with Jane to practice squash next week? You know I think we could have a wonderful weekend in Barcelona.. I bought the flight tickets for us..”
By the way in my eBook Getting The Good Girls you surely learned that Good Girls rarely run the jealousy game on you and if they do it they are only testing for safety so be nice to them.
Some Freaks may became pathologically jealous of you when you run this technique.. this is an unwanted “side effect” of this technique so watch the stalker!!!
Franco, helping men since 2004