How To Date A Girl The Meta Frame NLP And Seduction 4

This is about how to get smart with women:) Getting smart = getting laid!

I see so many guys who are not aware of this getting tooled by girls in the dating scene and during relationships! 

So stay with me.

One of the first things men need to know on how to date a girl is: be aware of the Meta Frame!

Throughout history women have had to deal with and control that dangerous animal called the Alpha Male.

He was a hunter, a real killer. 

That Primitive Cave Man brought home food and provided protection for his woman and her children. He did not have the modern problem of knowing how to date a girl!

However, if he got pissed off he may have become dangerous and unpredictable at any given moment.

Besides this: there was also the competition. He might have gotten interested in a female other than her! 

Another real danger was: what if he would have run away and kept the fruit of the hunting all for himself? 

So what women did do to survive when faced with these dangers? 

They began to study psychology!

They had to figure out how to detect all the possible reactions of that dangerous animal. 

They had to figure out how to “smooth control” him so to have him motivated to protect them and their children.

Yes: “Me Tarzan, You Jane”

Tarzan the tough guy, the hunter and..

Jane the mother and female manipulator!

An invisible and nasty little thing that women learned to remote control your brain is called the Meta Frame.

If you have experience in seduction you already are familiar with the concept of “Frame.”

What is a “Frame” or “Frame of Mind?” 

Well it is like a “Frame” that you put around a picture to define the picture itself your own way. 

In the case of seduction a frame defines the interaction between you and her.

For example, if she asks you: “Can you buy me a drink?” and tries to frame the interaction so that you have to pay for her, then you respond with: 

“I do that only with good girls. Are you a good girl?” and you reframe the interaction. 

It means: “I decide what goes on here. Not you.”

When you do that you are having a “stronger frame.”

Having a “strong frame” is a well known way of having a woman attracted to you.

She feels: “Wow, what a man!  He does not let me control him.. I like this guy!”

Now a Meta Frame is something much bigger than that and women use it to control men.

The big problems for guys start in the beginning, when they fail to detect her Meta Frame. 

If you fail to detect her Meta Frame she will impose her will on you.

She will do that more or less consciously or unconsciously for whatever goal she has in mind.

This can be marrying you, getting money out of you, or forcing you into exclusiveness.

I compare the Meta Frame to a swimming pool. She has built a swimming pool and then she has you “swim” in it at her will.

It is for you like getting into an invisible mental prison.

This becomes a big problem in matters of sexual and emotional attraction from her.

When you fail to detect her Meta Frame she will lose any interest in you.

You will become a “nice guy” and.. she will only want to be your friend.

Or, she will get out of you what she wants while losing her respect for you.

This is because The Cave Woman in her has conflicting feelings about controlling you. 

She has the need of controlling you and the feminine part in her likes a man she cannot actually control.

She “wants” yet “does not want” to control you.

Modern women have this conflict at a large extent: they want and do not want to control you.

Remember: every woman has this conflict. A woman “wants” and “does not want” to control you.

A nasty feature of the Meta Frame is that it affects the relationship since the beginning in a subtle way.

Meta Frames have much to do with identity and are used a lot in marketing. 

For example a company like Apple can define your identity. It puts on the front door of a store something like: “Mac People.”

Then, you think of yourself as a “Mac Person” and the company defines your identity.

The best example of Meta Frame I know is President George Bush’s “Iraq has forbidden weapons.”

Everyone believed that and after the US won the war it did not mean as much that it was true or not…

The Meta Frame is a strong frame that she sets on you since the beginning.

It is “Meta” because it is on the mind level, at the level of a process of thinking, without you noticing that defines the interaction between you and her.

For example.. she may tell you her family story and go like this..

Her: “By the way my Dad is a priest..”

Her: “He taught me since childhood to believe in God”

Her: “He taught me the importance of the soul”

Her: “I believe souls have a special connection with each other”

Because of your testosterone and other damn hormones you focus on her gorgeous legs.

You forget to follow what happens on the mind level and let her set your identity in the relationship.

Then each time you will interact with her you will face the topic of the “soul” and “purity” 

Then she will be the one to define how much the two of you are connecting.. or not.. and she will put a price to that!

With this Meta Frame of her “souls have a special connection with each other,” she begins to control you.

You “swim” in a swimming pool she has defined for you since the first moment. 

She will do whatever she wants with you.

She will force you to marry because “souls connect in marriage.” 

If you do not buy her the car that she likes she will feel that your souls are not connected enough.

At the end of the day, if you let her control you her primitive, feminine nature will come to the surface.

Then she will lose interest, respect, and attraction.  And you.. will lose her.

When she dumps you, maybe it will be because: “I understood that our souls are not connected enough.”

Nasty isn’t it?

This happens because she was smarter than you in setting her Meta Frame upfront.

She defined your identity.

So whatever your desire and testosterone may have you feeling between your legs, be aware and check a woman’s Meta Frame from the first moment you meet her!

Example of Meta Frames:

Her: “Do you have a car? I like adventurous men” This typically means that this prepares her to control your finances. 

Her: “I do not believe in materialism but a man without a position cannot handle me”

A married woman told me this once: her husband is 100% under her control and she lost all interest for him.

This is  a hell of a Double Bind, a Double Standard and a Meta Frame.

It means that you need to have a good position in life to be with her and you cannot complain about it. 

You cannot be materialistic and refuse of giving her material things.

Other examples:

Her: “I believe that sexual identity cannot be a strict concept.”

This can become: “During marriage I will have female lovers and you will not be jealous of that!”

Her: “I am honest and I always express my feelings in an open way”

I will give you the drama of a lifetime and you will take it and shut up! 

Her: “I am a sweet person but tough at times. I can be stubborn and independent”

This means: prepare yourself to deal with my rebellious nature each day of the week!

When confronted with Meta Frames many guys will get with her program.

They will “sense” that “something strange” is going on without knowing what.  

Then they will begin to become reactive to her Meta Frame.

Maybe they will become violent, jealous, or controlling; and still.. swim in the “swimming pool” of her Meta Frame! 

She will rule anyway!

Now why this is bad? 

Because over time when you let a woman establish a Meta Frame on you what happens is:

1. She will control you and the relationship (with all the possible negative aspects involved)

2. She will lose her sexual desire for you, either right away or over time!

Anyway, the good news is: you can establish a Meta Frame of your own to seduce a woman early on in the interaction!. 

Actually, as a seducer you must establish your Meta Frame upfront!

How to be the one to establish a Meta Frame upfront is information that I will tell you soon!

Note: now you can bring around Franco’s Manual of Seduction for Husbands, Single Men and Playboys on your mobile device with Kindle Amazon

Cheers, Franco

About the author

Dating Advice And Female Relationship Coaching For Men That Actually Works!

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

The first email consultation is TOTALLY FREE. There are no limits to the amount of topics you can ask the consultation for. Please send me an email with all the possible particulars connected with the dating women, seduction or female relationship topics you would like to discuss with me. Length maximum 5 pages Words, Mac Pages or 5 Screens Email Client, max 4000 words. After the first free email consultation you can decide are you willing of continuing with email consultations or book a voice consultation over Skype/Phone (please see below). On the left column a list of the main topics I am consulted for.  

Further email consultations are for a fee of 49.99 USD each one. Again: length maximum 5 pages Words, Mac Pages or 5 Screens Email Client, max 4000 words. Writing too much works against your own interests and the consultation will be less effective. By experience I can tell that guys who write the topics “straight to the point” are the ones who get the best results.  

I will answer only to consultations that are sent through the same email you used for the payment through PayPal.

Contact info:

For consultations contact me at: franco@francoseduction.com

I will get back to you between 1 and 7 days depending on the amount of consultation requests I am receiving.

I answer the consultations in the order they arrive. Please check your spam folder. 

You can also contact me on Facebook and send me your email and consultation request. 

Guys ask for consultations mainly on these topics:

DATING & SEDUCING WOMEN

– How to approach women.
– How to quickly detect the type of woman you are dealing with.
– How to tailor your approach to her type of personality.
– How to continue the conversation with her in a way that makes her interested in you.
– How to seduce a woman into having sex with you.
– Various techniques to date and seduce women in different venues and situations.
– How to get a good girlfriend/wife.
– How to seduce your ex-girlfriend to come back to you after your relationship with her ended. This is a tough one. It can be done only if you are motivated to get rid of your one-itis. It will be also necessary to improve your seduction skills and knowledge of female psychology.
– How to get rid of one-itis. One-itis is a nasty addictive condition. You will need a strong motivation to improve your seductive skills. You will need a strong motivation to get rid of your addiction. One-itis follows the same scheme like any other kind of addiction. If you are ready to fight it, then we can work miracles on that too.

FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS

– How to build a good exclusive relationship with a woman.
– How to build non-exclusive relationships with women and be polyamorous.
– How to build MLTRs = Multiple Long-Term Relationships
– How to choose the right woman for a certain type of relationship.
– How to enhance lifestyle and personal development
– How to manage difficult relationship problems in marriage or cohabitation with a woman.
There is absolutely nothing “hidden” or “mysterious” about female behavior in matters of dating, sexuality, and relationships with men. Female behavior follows precise laws, and can be predicted, as I love to say, with “mathematical precision.”

By joining Franco Seduction, you are putting yourself in an advantageous position when compared to 99% of men. I only ask that you keep an open mind about the advice I am willing to share with you.

My advice is very different from what parents, teachers, and the media have been giving you since you were young. It may shock you little in the beginning, but when you put it into practice in real life, it will shock you even more to see it in action.

NOTE: dating women will help you only when you have figured out the basics of how to act on female primeval instincts. Until then, women will play you like violins, and you will barely notice what’s going on. I am not feeding you marketing nonsense. I can only say: my method works. Just give it a try, and then come back to tell us how it changed your life.

DISCLAIMER

This activity is for entertainment purposes only and has absolutely no connection with medical or legal activities of any kind. If you need medical or legal advice please seek the assistance of a professional in those fields. Use of psychology is meant to be in the frame of applied psychology. This means the application of psychological knowledge to dating women, seduction and female relationships, with the only purpose of having you achieve your goals and no other means or goals involved.

Please see our Disclaimer and in regard to the above points.

By using Franco Seduction, the web site and all the services connected with it you state that you have read the Disclaimer and have accepted the Terms & Conditions for the use of this service.

Cheers, Franco