And why it is as important as comfort!
Women have (among their many other problems) two very, very important problems:
1. Safety: they want to know if they are safe around you. This is why you need comfort game. You need the skill of making them comfortable around you after you attract them, and…
2. Boredom: when girls begin to feel too comfortable around you, at a certain point they begin to get bored as hell – and this is why you need comfort game and.. you need discomfort game, too….
Discomfort game means making her worried a little bit, unsure, challenged; it means keeping her on the edge of uncertainty. This way keeping the woman aroused, attracted and interested becomes easier as a goal.
Creating comfort causes her to become receptive to sex with you, and discomfort has her constantly challenged so that she can feel that “special thrill”.
That way you become a constant source of excitement for her!
The difficult calibration here is when to apply comfort game, and when to apply discomfort game…
The more a woman is HSE (high self-esteem), the more she is built to check whether she is safe around you.
After you build attraction – and I repeat AFTER, otherwise you only end up being her nice guy friend – you should build comfort.
That is what gets you the girl: when she is attracted to you and then feels comfortable around you.
Then you should, along the relationship with her, watch her carefully and when you notice boredom – she begins to test you again – then THAT is the moment of creating discomfort.
How do you create discomfort? This way:
– Say the magic word more often to her – NO! There is nothing that keeps a hot woman more attracted to you than experiencing resistance with you.
– Become unpredictable: tell her less about your schedule, your hobbies and what you are going to do.
– Disappear from time to time without telling her what you do (be careful with this one: it usually scares women to death).
– Don’t give her too much sureness about when sex will happen next (I know, I know, this is a difficult one: when you are able to do this you reach mastery!).
Normally when you calibrate the discomfort game well she will…get out of boredom and… get horny for you.
Cheers, Franco.
Amazing
Genius
Hey Franco, I enjoy reading you’re articles! Even as a woman,I can tell you it makes sense! however I am on the more masculine side! so I use these tactics for years with both men and woman and with that being said it makes sense to why I experience so much disharmony with relationships! Funny thing though 90% of the people who end up not working out TRY to come back to me months or even years later! I like to educate myself with this kind of stuff because I know what’s at play. As a woman I don’t like being told NO! I lose interest when a man tells me no over and over .I end up doing it anyway and then that just kills the entire attraction. I wanna have a good time life’s too short to waste time ,so I just do it! I’ve tried to be men’s pivots and to go out and experience platonic friendship FUN but they don’t like about me they want a sexual relationship every single time but they have female friends that are strictly platonic I think to myself “ Why can’t we have that “ it’s very frustrating to have people wanting to constantly block your intentions to have a good time! Any thoughts about that ?
Hey Franco, I enjoy reading you’re articles! Even as a woman,I can tell you it makes sense! however I am on the more masculine side! so I use these tactics for years with both men and woman and with that being said it makes sense to why I experience so much disharmony with relationships! Funny thing though 90% of the people who end up not working out TRY to come back to me months or even years later! I like to educate myself with this kind of stuff because I know what’s at play. As a woman I don’t like being told NO! I lose interest when a man tells me no over and over .I end up doing it anyway and then that just kills the entire attraction. I wanna have a good time life’s too short to waste time ,so I just do it! I’ve tried to be a man’s pivot and to go out and experience platonic friendship FUN but they don’t like about me they want a sexual relationship every single time but they have female friends that are strictly platonic I think to myself “ Why can’t we have that “ it’s very frustrating to have people wanting to constantly block your intentions to have a good time! Any thoughts about that ?
Hello Alexandra, thank you for your comments. They are very interesting. See, there is a border between desire and frustration. When this happens: “it’s very frustrating to have people wanting to constantly block your intentions to have a good time!” the border between desire and frustration is crossed at the expenses of desire itself.. so a skilled seducer knows how to keep the tension exactly “at the border” between desire and frustration. Have a nice day.