Modern women drink nowadays more and more and for a reason: they actively coach themselves to use logic as a mean to control their emotions and their horniness.
As using logic does not come natural to them they feel very, very bad about it.
Every experienced seducer knows very well how every feminine woman hates logic when she is dealing with her sexual life.
The more she is sexually attracted the more she is emotional.
In order to control her own sexual desire a woman has to control her own emotions.
For many women being emotional in a relationship with a man is basically the same like being sexually receptive.
Drinking is one of the means a modern woman uses to have her emotionality “under control.”
Many modern women feel that their female emotionality is keeping them from screening men effectively. For this reason they try to repress it in themselves in several ways.
Heavy alcohol drinking is one of the means used by women to control their own emotionality and horniness.
As experienced playboys know well emotionality and horniness in a woman go hand by hand. They are strictly linked to each other.
Nowadays a smart guy needs to be aware of what alcohol abuse means for a modern woman. For this reason I would like to share with you some thought about this topic.
You can detect when a woman is using alcohol to control herself by the fact that she has a logical structure for it.
For example: “My drinking begins at 6pm Friday evening” and “My drinking ends Sunday morning.”
Then she puts “sex»” into the logical structure and keeps it religiously out of that structure when she is sober.
This gives her the chance of enjoying sex while dealing with men with a “cold head” in other areas of her life.
Modern woman do this because it gives them the possibility of controlling their emotions just like a man would do by building a logical structure over the emotions.
In this case “drinking starts” > “drinking ends” is the logical structure in question. Of course there are many variations of it. This is an example.
You need to observe and calibrate.
Many of these women are either masculine women who want to be dominant in their relationships with men or women who have issues in their sexuality.
The HSE (high self-esteem) woman usually drinks moderately and has no need to deny her own emotionality.
The high level woman with a good self-esteem can be in touch with her emotional and sexual life and function in any other area at the same time.
Basing of my experience of night game there are several groups of women who drink a lot.
1. The ones who drink because they feel ashamed about their body and their sexuality and can have sex» only when drunk. These women are all LSE (low self-esteem) women.
2. The ones who hate themselves so much that they cannot interact socially, reach any intimacy or do whatever is fun without having some kind of “punishment” on the side. Spending the night in the first aid room, vomiting, hitting the head somewhere and being raped are usually the “punishments.”
3. The ones who use alcohol to avoid sex. Yes guys, it’s not always like that: alcohol increases female sexual horniness and heavy intoxication is largely used by women to control horniness itself.. There are women who drink to have sex and women who drink to avoid sex!
Many women make sure to intoxicate themselves so heavily at the end of the night to get all the validation and attention coming from the chat, the closeness, the connection, the make out, the kissing and avoid full sexual contact with you.
In a word: they make sure that they are in such a terrible state at the end of the night to be able to avoid sex.
They also put the guy into the situation that the only way he has to have sex with them would be to basically rape them. This is achieved by totally blocking rapport by the means of alcohol intoxication.
4. Then, thanks God, there are the above mentioned higher level HSE girls, who just go to have fun and typically drink without losing control on the drinking. They behave basically the same way like they would day time except that they are little bit more “out of control.” The funny thing is: these one are the easiest to seduce into sex. So you should focus on them!
You can recognize them by the fact that getting rapport with you does not exclude for them the possibility of having sex with you. They do not use alcohol to avoid deeper rapport!
Sadly you will not easily find in the club scene a woman like that. So you need to be good at screening.
Instead, for the pathological drinker girl getting rapport with you will be the ultimate turn off as she drinks – among the other reasons – exactly because she is scared of rapport and intimacy.
When you are aware of these differences you can also learn to screen women properly during night game. You know why certain women control their own horniness. You know how to act with different women to get what you want.
You know which the women you better avoid are. You know how to screen for the women it’s more fun to spend time with.
Franco,
helping men since 2004
