How To Meet Women – Don’t Move, Just Attract!

Today I was thinking why so many guys ask questions about “how to meet women.”

Women are everywhere. Right now I am going by train to another town. A gorgeous blonde is sitting right in front of me.  On my right, another sweet girl is watching at the landscape out of the window. A few seats forward, a nice girl with a strange hat on her head is browsing her mobile.

First thing I do in those situations is to observe a girl’s body language before I approach.

It was enough to raise my head from my iPad while writing this article, and I already detected 3 sweet girls right next to me.

There must be something seriously wrong in many guys’ dating lives if they have to ask the question “how to meet women” so often.

Once I was reading an interesting article about men. A point of view was that men like to move objects in a space from a point “A” to point “B”, and maybe for that reason they get so easily caught in the trap of traditional dating.

Now let’s imagine that I am trapped in the typical traditional dating mentality. I would probably think that in order to have her, I should move her from point “A” to a point “B” and maybe arrange a “date” in some nice place.

When you get into this frame of mind, two very bad things happen to you as a man:

1. You try to answer the question “how to meet women” without doing anything to attract her to you right there, where you are!

2. Naturally, you begin to feel that the world must be a desert without women in it. While so many women are right there, close to you, you begin to feel that you should move a girl from point “A” to point “B”.

This is because you have been educated to be subservient to women since you  were a child. Your upbringing has you feeling that you should work and sweat to get a woman even before you actually know her!

I think this is the process behind what makes you feel that it is so difficult to meet women; the traditional dating propaganda makes you feel you should do everything except the most important thing:

Attract her where you are right now!

While I am writing this for you, the blond in front of me is doing her make up and caressing the mirror with her long nails painted in dark green. Soon I will raise my head, look into her eyes, smile deeply and, ask her if she is a pianist.

There are no “wars” you need to fight or “big enterprises” to build for you to know how to meet women! Save that for business.

The change you need has to happen inside your head. Parents and society taught you that you should invest your energy and bring her from one place to another, “do something!”, be a man!

No one taught you the really important skill you need; how to attract the women you like right there, where you are!

Here are 10 essential points directed to improve your inner game in the matter of how to meet women:

1. Women are all around you; you do not need to move.

2. Focus on attracting the woman close to you, forget traditional dating.

3. Trying to move a non-attracted woman from point “A” to point “B” is a waste of time and energy, and will frustrate you and her.

4. We live in totally new times for matters of male-female relationships; you do not need to sweat to get a woman. This mindset will only frustrate you and make you focus on the wrong things.

5. An attracted woman will follow you straight to your flat when you are good at eliciting the fire of attraction in her. If you adore bars and restaurants, like I do, consider them only a place to celebrate what has already happened; she wants you badly!

6. Turn around the whole traditional dating mentality: for you to invest your energy into her, she needs to show signs of attraction. You are the Prize.

7. If she says “No kisses on first date”, you ask politely, “Sorry, did we agree to meet again?”

8. Before she becomes something like a girlfriend or a wife, she needs to show that she worships you as a sexual male and keep feeling that over time. In the absence of that, you will only be emasculated by being with her.

9. Attraction is an emotion in her head and not something you can achieve by moving your ass all the time.

10. Don’t move! The best place to meet women is where you are right now!

Cheers, Franco

(Visited 181 times, 1 visits today)

About the author

Dating Advice And Female Relationship Coaching For Men That Actually Works!


  1. While I get the gist of what the article is trying to say….what if there’s hardly ever any women around in my life ?

    It’s kind of like the saying “let women come to you” but what am I supposed to do if no woman ever actually comes to me?…because that’s been the case with my life, not 1 women has ever come to me, but I know that going out chasing after women is not the answer either

  2. Hello J, thank you for being here with us. I understand how you feel. See it is not about chasing women. Here you can find other articles about chasing. Chasing is never a good thing. It is about interacting with women so that you have them feel strong emotions that are linked to you. When you are able to have a woman become highly emotional when she is around you then she will come to you and enjoy being around you. The main motor of a woman’s sexual desire towards you is emotional communication connected to you.

  3. I guess what I’m wondering is: when I hear the phrase “let women chase you” the image I see is making the women come up and approach and talk first, but I’ve never actually seen that happen in real life…so there must be some part of the story or information that articles like this aren’t telling

  4. Yes, you are right, that is not what it means. What it means is: first have a woman attracted to you, then let her chase you. Nice guys, guys without experience do the opposite: they chase in the hope that women will get attracted. Doesn’t go that way. Without attraction and interest she won’t chase. It’s her emotional brain that drives her to do something, not the logic.

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

The first email consultation is TOTALLY FREE. There are no limits to the amount of topics you can ask the consultation for. Please send me an email with all the possible particulars connected with the dating women, seduction or female relationship topics you would like to discuss with me. Length maximum 5 pages Words, Mac Pages or 5 Screens Email Client, max 4000 words. After the first free email consultation you can decide are you willing of continuing with email consultations or book a voice consultation over Skype/Phone (please see below). On the left column a list of the main topics I am consulted for.  

Further email consultations are for a fee of 49.99 USD each one. Again: length maximum 5 pages Words, Mac Pages or 5 Screens Email Client, max 4000 words. Writing too much works against your own interests and the consultation will be less effective. By experience I can tell that guys who write the topics “straight to the point” are the ones who get the best results.  

I will answer only to consultations that are sent through the same email you used for the payment through PayPal.

Contact info:

For consultations contact me at:

I will get back to you between 1 and 7 days depending on the amount of consultation requests I am receiving.

I answer the consultations in the order they arrive. Please check your spam folder. 

You can also contact me on Facebook and send me your email and consultation request. 

Guys ask for consultations mainly on these topics:


– How to approach women.
– How to quickly detect the type of woman you are dealing with.
– How to tailor your approach to her type of personality.
– How to continue the conversation with her in a way that makes her interested in you.
– How to seduce a woman into having sex with you.
– Various techniques to date and seduce women in different venues and situations.
– How to get a good girlfriend/wife.
– How to seduce your ex-girlfriend to come back to you after your relationship with her ended. This is a tough one. It can be done only if you are motivated to get rid of your one-itis. It will be also necessary to improve your seduction skills and knowledge of female psychology.
– How to get rid of one-itis. One-itis is a nasty addictive condition. You will need a strong motivation to improve your seductive skills. You will need a strong motivation to get rid of your addiction. One-itis follows the same scheme like any other kind of addiction. If you are ready to fight it, then we can work miracles on that too.


– How to build a good exclusive relationship with a woman.
– How to build non-exclusive relationships with women and be polyamorous.
– How to build MLTRs = Multiple Long-Term Relationships
– How to choose the right woman for a certain type of relationship.
– How to enhance lifestyle and personal development
– How to manage difficult relationship problems in marriage or cohabitation with a woman.
There is absolutely nothing “hidden” or “mysterious” about female behavior in matters of dating, sexuality, and relationships with men. Female behavior follows precise laws, and can be predicted, as I love to say, with “mathematical precision.”

By joining Franco Seduction, you are putting yourself in an advantageous position when compared to 99% of men. I only ask that you keep an open mind about the advice I am willing to share with you.

My advice is very different from what parents, teachers, and the media have been giving you since you were young. It may shock you little in the beginning, but when you put it into practice in real life, it will shock you even more to see it in action.

NOTE: dating women will help you only when you have figured out the basics of how to act on female primeval instincts. Until then, women will play you like violins, and you will barely notice what’s going on. I am not feeding you marketing nonsense. I can only say: my method works. Just give it a try, and then come back to tell us how it changed your life.


This activity is for entertainment purposes only and has absolutely no connection with medical or legal activities of any kind. If you need medical or legal advice please seek the assistance of a professional in those fields. Use of psychology is meant to be in the frame of applied psychology. This means the application of psychological knowledge to dating women, seduction and female relationships, with the only purpose of having you achieve your goals and no other means or goals involved.

Please see our Disclaimer and in regard to the above points.

By using Franco Seduction, the web site and all the services connected with it you state that you have read the Disclaimer and have accepted the Terms & Conditions for the use of this service.

Cheers, Franco