This book is about all what you need to know to have a woman want sex with you.
In addition, this book will help make sure that she will continue to want sex over time in your relationship.
Keep women in a constant state of sexual willingness when around you!
Are you hoping to find a girl you can be in a great relationship with?
Here is how you can realize your wish!
The book “Getting The Good Girls” can be used as a practical manual for meeting women at any time of the day. It can also be used to learn how to screen women depending on their personality.
One-itis is a very painful and damaging condition, if you’re unlucky, you’ll get infected with this illness especially if you’re young and lack experience with women.
In the Manual of Seduction I have shown how you can gain a huge experience with women so that you are able to have women very rapidly attracted to you.
Refer for this to the Manual of Seduction.
If you don’t know what one-itis is, here’s a definition:
“Obsessively thinking about ONE woman to the extent where you feel so attached to her, if anything happened to end the relationship you feel like killing yourself.”
Think about it…
Has this ever happened to you, you wait for the girl to text you for hours, you think about doing everything with her and you see her as your only option in life when mating is concerned.
When you have one-itis you are totally crazy about the girl and she takes up 80% to 90% of your mental energy as you dream all possible scenarios with her including all sorts of crazy sexual fantasies over and over again.
Replaying emotions and thoughts on an endless loop, just you and her.
Since one-itis is an illness (which I’ll tell you more about in a minute) you can face a long list of very negative outcomes:
● You will be emasculated (become a lower male) and reduced to the role of “male girlfriend.”
● You will lose – almost definitely lose – your cherished girlfriend: she will flat out dump you or utter the dreaded words: “I love you but I feel that we cannot be together, I feel only friendship for you.”
● You will be drained of mental energy to the point where it becomes increasingly impossible to focus on your business, hobbies and other social relationships.
● You may fall into a financial hole, unable to make significant life decisions like forming a family, having children or buying a house.
It is crucial that you learn how to get a girlfriend WITHOUT one-itis. Its a way better way to live your life… because when you have one-itis you start doing strange things like:
● Call her all the time
● Send her messages all the time
● Try to please her too much
● Put her on a pedestal
● Begin to treat her like a “pure, sexless Madonna”
● Act jealous and possessive around her
● Get into a very painful state of self-hypnosis (= being obsessively focused on something)
IMPORTANT NOTE – one-itis kills attraction faster than flipping a switch.
YOU GET DUMPED quickly when she sees you displaying one-itis.
Women are strictly TURNED OFF by men with one-itis because it communicates lots of unattractive characteristics.
She WILL LEAVE YOU EVEN IF SHE LOVES YOU.
The good news is you can prevent her dumping you and prevent future girlfriends from dumping you too with one thing: experience!
Being relaxed, comfortable and confident around women comes from experience and before you start giving up because there’s so much work, its actually easy.
I’m going to give you a few short-cuts to quicken your learning curve.
Listen, you’ve heard this from women before right:
“I want a man who knows how to treat a woman.”
Do you know THIS is what they actually mean?
“I want a man who has been with so many women that he will not put on a pedestal, will be able to lead me and my emotions and not treat me like a sexless madonna.”
As women have been oppressed for centuries when it comes to sexuality they cannot say this openly (though there’s some improvement, many women still hide their voracious sexual appetite).
There are huge advantages in kicking out one-itis from your system, like:
● She starts seeing you as “The Prized Catch” and will never lose sexual attraction for you.
● If she is the good girl type, she will never cheat on you.
● If she is the adventuress type she will consider you Mr. Number One in matters of having fun. All the other men with one-itis will be felt as “boys” compared to you.
● If she is materialistic you will be able to have an unfogged, clear mind with which to spot her manipulative ways of taking advantage of your financial capacity.
With that lets jump straight into the 10 signs you should look out for…
1. Self-hypnosis: you begin to think obsessively about her from the morning to night. This isn’t normal feelings of love… If you get a normal feeling of loving a person you feel a sweet feeling of happiness and that does not keep you from focus in other areas of life.
Solution: when you get into this state learn to recognize it in time and shift the focus on your business, activities and your social circle. Think: “Yes, I like her and.. it cannot be such a big thing for me quitting having a normal life”
2. You begin to see less and less of your social circle, forget to call friends, begin to be less able to focus on work and business. When you give up your social circle turn her off big time.. Women like men who are successful and a leader among men. How could you be successful and a leader of men if you give up your friends?
Solution: Increase contacts and outings with your social circle instead of reducing it.
3. You begin to feel that she is “pure” and “unique” and that “no other woman on the Planet could ever be so good and pure”. You may begin to deny the fact that she is a sexual human being and as such likes huge mind blowing sex like every other woman on the planet.
Solution: when you begin to have such thoughts like “ohh.. she is such a good and special girl, she is so pure and would never be wild and out of control” realize that you are getting into one-itis.
4. Learn to recognize a female “purity card”. Women when attracted to men are almost invariably prone to put this card on the table to get you into an exclusive relationship. Take it as a compliment: if she does that it means she likes you.
Its one of the most powerful cards women use on men to obtain exclusivity. It means that she will actively and subtly begin to present herself to you as a “good and kind girl” who would never be sexual.
Solution: realize she is human being and as such surely great in some areas and very much imperfect in others. The purity card is one of the tools at her disposal to hook you. Many women have learned that men are scared of female sexuality and run the purity card on them when they want to catch the man.
5. Wrong mindset about female exclusivity. This is a huge factor which can have you get a very bad one-itis when you get a girlfriend. Women do not want or like man who wants them exclusively!
Women like and want man who get other women easily!
A woman is hard-wired to desire a man who can easily get other women! When you get into one-itis it may happen to you that you begin to promise exclusivity to her without her having done anything to deserve it!
Solution: if you catch yourself promising exclusivity to a new girlfriend without her having done anything to meet your needs and your desires and without her having demonstrate to you how fit she is for a good relationship with you this brings you directly to one-itis. Realize that in this case you are promising exclusivity not because you really want it but because you want to please her for your fear of losing her.
She reads: this guy cannot easily get other women and her attraction goes down while you get deep with your neck into one-itis
6. You begin to get angry and nervous if your friends make comments about her natural desire as a sexual human being. Again a bad sign that you are getting into one-itis.
Solution: take it easy man! She IS a sexual human being as a woman. Your friends are very much right about that. Consider this: would you like her and desire her if she was a zero on the sexual scale?
7. You become jealous and possessive, begin to control what she does, follow her, go through her mobile while she is not seeing you, read her email, ask her where she has been and so on. Realize this: by doing this stuff you basically give her the message that you are not able to get other women at will! That is a huge turn off for every woman (They will never admit it but this is the way it is!)
Solution: you need more experience with women! Without that you will always be in a state of alert and nervousness at the idea that she might having sex somewhere else and with someone else.
8. Failing to escalate to sex at the beginning and “waiting to make her comfortable with it” is another sure sign that you are getting into one-itis. You are being hit by the Madonna/whore complex and virtually castrating yourself as a man in order to avoid losing her. One of the most sure signs you are getting into one-itis.
Solution: when you like a woman you can escalate to sex as soon as you have elicited attraction in her. If you are not able to detect when a woman is attracted to you and not able to do enough to attract her that means it is not the time to think about how to get a girlfriend for real…You first need more experience of women in order to get in better touch with female sexuality.
9. Madonna/whore complex. When you follow your thoughts about women you tend to divide them into “good women who are pure and not that wild about sex” and “bad women, who are whores, bad girls and too open to sex”
Solution: realize that such a thing does not exist in reality. ALL women are sexual human beings. The main difference between a good girl, an adventuress or a materialista is not “how much she wants sex or does she wants sex in the first place”.
The main difference is about the end value they are after: a good girl wants to conquer your heart and establish a loving relationship with you, an adventuress wants to have sexual pleasure and fun with you, a materialista wants to control her own attraction and sexual pleasure with you enough to be able to reach your credit card.
ALL these women want sex. Including the good girl: actually good girls can be very often the ones to be extremely passionate and sexual!
10. Forgetting your own needs when you like a woman. One of the most important skills you need in order to avoid one-itis is a good touch with your own needs and safety.
If when you begin to like a woman you notice that you are beginning to forget your own needs: being calm, relaxed, eating well, resting well, dedicating yourself to your hobbies, enjoying your social relationships and so on that is one of the most sure signs you are getting into one-itis and a huge turn off for your girlfriend to come!
Solution: it is always a good practice when you get a girlfriend to deliberately check are you still satisfying your needs like you did before. Realize that healthy self-love is one of the major features in you which make a woman like you!
Learn to recognize the difference between falling in love, loving and having one-itis!
Falling in love, loving: for the adult mature man it is a calm, relaxed thing which adds value to his life. The fundamental pillars of his life are not “shaken” by the falling in love and the loving. He is the same man and is enriched by the experience.
One-itis: it is an obsessive painful condition where you begin to feel anxious, depressed, think obsessively about her and make all the mistakes in the book in matters of being around women. Your world is “shaken” by her.
If you have one-itis you need more experience about women and seduction, much more than a girlfriend!
When you want to become experienced in all the areas of dating women and female relationships all what you need is the Manual of Seduction by Franco
To your success with women!
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Betaising the alpha male: learn to detect in time and prevent your own emasculation as a man in female relationships Here I describe the process of betaising the alpha male and how to reframe it to make your woman and yourself happy in the relationship. The purpose of this article is positive. When you learn how to deal with this process properly you will be able to keep your woman indefinitely in a state of constant horniness for you. How you can attract and seduce women effectively I have described in the Manual of Seduction Refer for this to the Manual of Seduction I am sure this will motivate you to read on.. In the Manual of Seduction you can find more knowledge about the basics of how the female sexual instinct presents itself and how you can stimulate it to achieve more horniness in the female. The article is meant to help men build happier relationships with their women by enhancing the attraction their women feel for them. All the psychological tests a woman runs on a man are meant to achieve only one purpose: to screen out weaker males and achieve power over the alpha dominant male....
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There are many ways to seduce women and one of them is to model the means women use to seduce men and then use them on women! How you can attract and seduce women effectively I have described in the Manual of Seduction Refer for this to the Manual of Seduction That has tremendous seductive effect on them for several reasons. One of them is that the majority of the men falls so easily for their seduction means and that bores women to death. Being predictable is the worst enemy of seducing a woman and so many men are predictable to women! For this predictability when they meet a guy who can surprise them for good they feel: “Wow, this guy is a challenge for me. Let´s find out more about him!” You can use the PNP mechanism (positive – negative – positive ) I have described in the Manual of Seduction to seduce women and it is extremely effective in the field. First of all let me approach the role of self-control. I call it more: awareness. Awareness is crucial for being good with women. It is your best friend in the field of pickup and seduction. What...
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DHV is in the art of seducing women = Demonstrating Higher Value. When it is done properly it is done in an indirect way. If you show to a woman directly that you have value and you get caught boasting about yourself that becomes a huge DLV = Demonstrating Lower Value. Men of value ARE their own value. They do not boast about it. How you can attract and seduce women effectively I have described in the Manual of Seduction Refer for this to the Manual of Seduction Nowadays life is hectic: there is no time for everything. So you need to know how to use DHV to seduce women fast. It spares you time. The wrong way to use DHV is this: Her: “What´s your job?” You: “Oh.. I think that only losers work a lot. Much better to live on passive income!” The right way to DHV is this: Her: “What´s your job?” You: “Oh.. lately I have been not working much. We are doing this family business and see my Dad is a fanatic of automatism in business. He teases me all the time when I work too much. Nice Dad isn´t it? He is all...
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Let me guys the pleasure of sharing with you a technique you can use to give a girlfriend or a wife – who is trying to make you jealous by putting you to compete with other guys – the surprise of a lifetime. This is a very powerful technique to counter act any kind of game a woman may try to play on you while you plan to seduce her and in long-term relationships with her. How you can attract and seduce women effectively I have described in the Manual of Seduction Refer for this to the Manual of Seduction I have highly field tested this technique and it works every single time like a very well oiled machine. Of course you need to know the basics of the game as described in the Manual of Seduction for being able to apply this well. When women talk to us they use rich descriptions. This I also call female hypnotic talk and it´s a way the female of our species uses to gain power over the male. Women describe richly colors, situations, feelings, shape and all. On the contrary men tend to exchange data and prefer to say it shortly...
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To be a free man with a good inner game you must learn to manage your neediness well I am willing to share with you this free knowledge about neediness. Neediness management is essential to be a successful seducer and even more essential to have good relationships with women. How you can attract and seduce women effectively I have described in the Manual of Seduction Refer for this to the Manual of Seduction The distinction between biological and psychological, body and mind does not exist in reality. All of these happen together, as a whole. This is true for neediness, too. If you try to understand neediness by considering it only a psychological . issue you will never understand it fully and you will never be able to manage it. Neediness is first of all a biological, physical phenomenon and not only an abstract psychological problem. The brain has a biological rewarding/punishing system, which – by the means of hormones and neurotransmitters like endorphins, dopamine, serotonin – rewards us by giving us pleasure any time we do something which is essential for the survival of the individual and the species. Such things are for example moving, running (hunting, fighting,escaping),...
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This is probably the easiest way of doing pickup. How you can attract and seduce women effectively I have described in the Manual of Seduction Refer for this to the Manual of Seduction Opening a conversation with a woman on her approach invitation. An approach invitation (AI) is something spontaneous and very often unconscious women do. It implies the message: ”Please notice me, please talk to me.” It is easy because all what you need to do is to slow down your pace, observe the environment and then open the conversation. Approach invitations are: – She looks at you and turns her head in the other direction rapidly. – She smiles lightly to you, makes eye contact with you and then rapidly turns her head in the other direction. – She walks close to you and if you change your place she is ”as for a case” again close to you. – Playing nervously with her hand bag or other stuff she has in her hands – Searching the content of her hand bag while close to you. – Dropping stuff on the floor, while close to you. – While walking she looks at you rapidly and then looks...
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Screen women while you meet them Well let´s assume that you are at the stage of being able to approach women everywhere and are enjoying the wonderful feeling of abundance which comes with good skills in meeting women. How you can attract and seduce women effectively I have described in the Manual of Seduction Refer for this to the Manual of Seduction Already at this stage it is very important for you to learn the art of screening women. Why is that? Because now that you are operating from a frame of abundance you will not have the time for every girl. Another good reason is that when you screen women that has you come out automatically as the prize in the relationship with them and it increases your appeal a lot when women “sense” – and believe me they will ! – that you do not have time for everyone.Another good reason is that when you screen women that has you come out automatically as the prize in the relationship with them and it increases your appeal a lot when women “sense” – and believe me they will ! – that you do not have time for everyone....
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How to get my ex girlfriend back from a new boyfriend I am asked quite often this question: “how to get my ex girlfriend back from a new boyfriend” Here I am going to share with you techniques you can use to solve the problem how to get my ex girlfriend back from a new boyfriend. This is powerful stuff and when you learn to practice it well it will get your girlfriend back for sure. On the other hand as you sure you really want her back? To be able to get her back first thing to do is to get rid of your romantic nice guy fantasies about females and begin to study seduction. In the case you lost your girlfriend to another guy chances are that you have been betaised before that happened. For a detailed description of the betaising process see my article here about that topic. When you will learn how to act properly in dealing with a female betaising process your “problem” will soon become how to get rid of all the girls who want to be your girlfriend. Anyway Bbetaised = emasculated psychologically = you did not pass her tests for being...
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Being dominant as a male is the way for female sexual happiness Seducing a woman means giving her what her femininity is looking for. As a man you are attracted by receptivity, femininity, sweetness, mystery. As a woman she is attracted by self-confidence, directness, toughness, strong leadership. It´s the Yin and the Yang attracting each other. What is a dominant male in a relationship? Simple: he is someone who makes decisions. So if you want to know how to be a dominant as a male you need to make a priority list for yourself and put at the top of it this: Being able to make decision is my top priority number one! Love Sweetness Understanding her Being good to her Being the nice guy she likes so much “Talking” and “communicating” Are all secondary priorities compared to your ability of: Making decisions Why this is attractive to a woman? Because for her being able to be a woman she needs to “let it go” and get into receptive state. When she is with a man who has as top priority number one making decisions she knows she is with a man who understands how to be dominant as...
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Calibrating value – the importance of this concept in the seduction game I write this article where I expand more the concept of value and calibrating value in a relationship with a female. The concept of value in a relationship is the same like the concept of value in the commercial world. The big difference is that in the case of an emotional and sexual relationship with a woman the concept of value is connected with the deeper instincts of evolution and replicating. For example in times of war the fact that you are a skilled warrior and have big muscles is for sure of very important replicating and evolutionary value for her (it helps her to survive). Instead a very ugly, short and fat guy may have for her – and surely has – a very important evolutionary and replicating value if he has a lot of money and if she is planning to make a family and have children. It is a very changeable concept: if you are in a modern environment your Ferrari surely has a very important value in her eyes for the choice of a mate, The same Ferrari is totally worthless for her...
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Social hijacking: don´t let her do this to you in a long-term relationship Social hijacking is defined as: slow manipulation into social isolation. Without knowing it themselves men have to deal in female relationships with this more than they could imagine. If you are in a long-term relationship/marriage and slowly went into social isolation a big chance is that you have been betaised by her by the means of social hijacking. This is in most of the cases totally unconscious from the female but it may have deleterious consequences for your material interests and your mental health. Remember that in most of the cases if a woman is doing this to you it means that she values you a lot and is attracted to you. There are other minor cases where she does that consciously but you better let those women.. to me. This process is encountered both when you meet her in the Lover role and when you are with her as a Provider. There are slight differences between these two situations and the means used to put social hijacking into practice are very similar in both. It is in the female instinct to use all the means...
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The power of asking: you can have her like you by simply asking for good things Guys, when you become an high status male and an expert seducer you will soon notice that asking good things from women will improve your relationship with them much more than giving. Asking has a magic power: as psychologist Robert Cialdini has pointed out in his writings when a person gives you good things this person is usually prone to backward rationalize “why am I doing this? I must like this person a lot if I do this to him/her!” Women were born with influence psychology in their blood as they did this for centuries to men long before Cialdini was born. This is also one important psychological mechanism which makes of men slave to their women, especially when they are in the provider role. Many guys ask from themselves: “Why I do this? Why do I give her all while she is being me such a bitch?”. Well because she is using the power of asking. She simply asks you things and she is making in that way of herself the prize in your eyes. You can do the same ! In...
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JohnnyC69 is a good friend of mine and a very experienced playboy. He tells us how to recognize adventuresses and seduce them. It’s no secret that there is a handful of personality types you’re going to encounter when seducing women. For the sake of this discussion though, we’ll slot them into three main categories: the Ho, aka Materialista, the Good Girl and the Freak, aka Adventuress. The way to know which one you’re dealing with is to understand her motives. The Materialista is motivated by money and material possessions. The Good Girl is motivated primarily by safety and security. Some would argue that the Good Girl is similar to the Materialista, in that she seeks out a man to provide his resources for her long term (socially acceptable), whereas the Materialista seeks to gain the resources of a man (or men) short term (socially frowned upon, hence the negative connotation of the word, Ho). The Freak or Adventuress is a special kind of creature though. Her motives are driven by two main components: Validation and Stimulation. What I want to talk about today is how to position yourself on the stimulation side, rather than the vast majority of men...
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It is very important when seducing a woman to set sex with her before the third meeting as a goal, with focus on the first and second meetings. This is crucial for you to succeed with women because it is connected with congruence and with certain primitive responses of the female evolutionary system. Congruence is one of the most important qualities of the alpha male. I do not take into account those situations where you have decided from the beginning that you want that particular woman only as a friend. That is just fine, provided you are being congruent with yourself. I do take into account the situations where you approached the woman with a clear sexual purpose in mind. You approached her to pick her up and seduce her into having sex with you and maybe even a sexual relationship with you. Reminder: wanting her as a girlfriend IS a sexual relationship and not something else. Women always test men for congruence: it is instinctual to them. Sexuality and pregnancy are in the deepest levels of their instincts and are strictly connected with each other, regardless of the quality of birth control means we might have nowadays. Instincts...
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This is a report from a street pickup of mine. I described in the Manual of Seduction the importance of screening women very early in the interaction with them. Here is a practical example of why that is so important. I am a very, very busy guy, so street pickup is my favorite. I can do it while I go about my daily business and still sleep well at night. The topic: why it is so important to be the selector of women and never, ever the selectee. Well there are many, many reasons. The most important reason is that the majority of men never get there. Most of them are selected by women, in one way or another. By being the selector you put yourself far above all the other men. Let me tell you a story. A few weeks ago, I was out with one of my friends, Peter. He is one of my wingmen and after many years of fun, he is looking for a girlfriend. We go out and do pickup together from time to time. He is a great guy who has a good level of experience with women. Anyway, on this particular occasion,...
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Club game is a totally different perspective. All what is true in other types of games becomes wilder and pretty much different in club game. Guys project their horniness into the girls and believe that the girls will behave like guys; try to get laid as their main goal. Well that is true: women like sex as much as guys and want to get laid as much as the guys do. Anyway, there are some very important differences between guys and girls in matters of priorities in the sexual area. If you have been making out with a girl in the club and then wondering why she suddenly left without having sex with you well the reason is exactly in those differences between girls and boys in matters of priorities. Guys are very much puzzled and irritated when she makes out with them and then leaves. They do not understand the meaning of this apparently “illogical” behavior. Well there is a very important logic in this kind of female behavior: a female´s main sexual goal is not to get laid. A female´s main sexual goal is to get social power by building as many social links as possible and...
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When you are dealing with beauty simply.. stay calm. The flight – fight state is probably one of the best indicators of weakness in the human species. It is a primitive reaction which is there to give you the tools necessary to survive when you are in danger. There is a downside to it: when you get into flight-fight mode you are also giving the message that you have used all your best means and that you can from now only “fight” or “run.” When you get into the flight – fight state you are basically giving the message to all the members of the group around you that you have reached the limit of your resources. Basically you give the message that you are in trouble. If you are in a position of leadership others will follow your state and begin to feel they are in trouble, too. When you are the leader the members of your group match your inner state. If you are calm the group will follow. When you are in flight-fight mode the group doubts you and your leadership. When you have this reaction you become “over emotional” and begin to do stuff like...
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Modern women drink nowadays more and more and for a reason: they actively coach themselves to use logic as a mean to control their emotions and their horniness. As using logic does not come natural to them they feel very, very bad about it. Every experienced seducer knows very well how every feminine woman hates logic when she is dealing with her sexual life. The more she is sexually attracted the more she is emotional. In order to control her own sexual desire a woman has to control her own emotions. For many women being emotional in a relationship with a man is basically the same like being sexually receptive. Drinking is one of the means a modern woman uses to have her emotionality “under control.” Many modern women feel that their female emotionality is keeping them from screening men effectively. For this reason they try to repress it in themselves in several ways. Heavy alcohol drinking is one of the means used by women to control their own emotionality and horniness. As experienced playboys know well emotionality and horniness in a woman go hand by hand. They are strictly linked to each other. Nowadays a smart guy needs...
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In direct game there are good ways of opening a conversation with her from a distance. When you succeed having her come to you, you come out as very, very self-confident in her eyes. That gives you a huge advantage when you – a moment after – will shift from small talk into running your attraction game on her. As you know from the Manual of Seduction women get wet for the Alpha Male. It´s an overwhelming instinct for them. By having the guts of opening the conversation from a distance you clearly show that you are not afraid of the opinion of the group around you. You show that you are a leader of people. Even if you are not talking to anyone else when you open from a distance and have her come to you, you show that you are not scared of leading the group around you. The “group” may be the people around you in a bar, the people around you on the streets or the passengers in a crowded train. You can start a conversation with a woman from a distance non verbally: one of the women who became afterwards one of my MLTRs...
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Learn how to use eye contact In the case you are new to the world of seducing women something you can try which is not that difficult is prolonged eye contact with a female. Just sit down at the edge of a crowded street and observe males walking when they are just about to have a woman coming from the other direction. Almost all of them will avoid prolonged eye contact with a female. Why so? Well there are many reasons. One of them is that those males get horny when they are seeing a hot woman and feel ashamed of it. Women know this and when they see a male who avoids prolonged eye contact with a female they already screen him out as a potential mate. He is feeling ashamed of his sexuality so he is not an alpha male. Alpha males do not make mystery out of wanting a woman. So when you are at the first step of learning the art of seducing women when you are on the streets practice the art of prolonged eye contact with a female. In a totally calm and non aggressive way when she is closer to you and...
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